TTC: Being 100% responsible – how your wellbeing isn’t hitched to how others act

By | January 7th, 2020|Categories: Conflict, Fertility yoga, Frustration, IVF stress relief, positive thinking for fertility, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , , , , |

TTC: How often do you feel that your wellbeing is hitched to how others act? Conflict can appear on many levels as you TTC, such as arguments with partners, disagreements with friends, or confrontations at work. Being in conflict can not only bring you down, but also can set a negative tone for the whole day. [...]

TTC: What do you pay attention to? Moving from fear to freedom

By | January 6th, 2020|Categories: Anger, Fertility yoga, Frustration, infertility quote, IVF stress relief, Kindness, positive thinking for fertility, stress relief yoga, ttc, ttc journey, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , |

TTC: Being aware of how you pay attention is a powerful practice. It can be a shock to realise how much your 'take' on situations can affect your reality. When we're having a hard time, we often start to identify with the struggle. For example: 'This situation isn't going to work, therefore, I don't work.' 'My [...]

TTC: A simple breathing tool to release blame

By | July 17th, 2019|Categories: Anger, calm breathing technique, Fertility yoga, Frustration, IVF stress relief, IVF yoga, positive thinking for fertility, ttc, yoga for fertility|

TTC: Blame is such a corrosive emotion. We all feel it yet we rarely talk about it. As a result it sits within us, heavy, tight and hot - and often we find it hard to shift. For many of us it is part and parcel of a ttc journey. If you blame yourself for your [...]

TTC: Feeling annoyed & frustrated? This tool can help

By | March 16th, 2019|Categories: 2ww, Anger, Fear, Frustration, Gratitude, IVF stress relief, positive thinking for fertility, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , , |

TTC: My washing machine broke this week. It's been unwell for a while and I've been in denial, ignoring it. The haunting clanking noise it's been making has gone on for months, and then on Tuesday it gave up the ghost. Annoying. On Friday I left my house to teach a yoga class and I forgot [...]

TTC: 3 ways to heal guilt and shame

By | February 17th, 2019|Categories: Anger, Forgiveness, Frustration, IVF stress relief, Kindness, positive thinking for fertility, stress relief yoga, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , , |

TTC: How many times have you felt guilty as you ttc? Guilt is such a corrosive emotion that I felt many times during my fertility journey. I read this on my insta feed today which I could totally relate to, perhaps you can too: 'Today I feel that I'm drowning in guilt. Guilt that I want [...]

TTC: 5 lessons I learned while waiting for my baby to come to me

By | February 14th, 2019|Categories: Fertility yoga, Frustration, IVF stress relief, positive thinking for fertility, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , , , |

TTC: If you are not naturally patient, your ttc journey usually gives you a crash course in it. I hated having to be patient. Waiting has never been my strong point. I wanted to be at the end of the road with my babe in my arms. I didn’t want to be told to ‘hold tight’ [...]

TTC: If you were to unfuck yourself, what age would you be?

By | November 18th, 2018|Categories: Anger, Fear, Fertility yoga, Frustration, IVF stress relief, Kindness, Positivity, Reframing thoughts, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , , , |

TTC: ‘Scuse the expletive, but I love this photo. If you were to unfuck yourself, what age would that be? When was it you felt balanced, calm and strong? When did you feel you could take on the world and do ANYTHING and be anyone? Think back to who you were then. Can you remember how [...]

TTC: Remember when you wanted what you currently have?

By | October 29th, 2018|Categories: Fertility yoga, Frustration, IVF stress relief, positive thinking for fertility, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , |

TTC: Remember when you wanted what you currently have? Can you cast your mind back to who you were then? This is not to negate what you are going through right now as you ttc, but it allows you to get perspective. So let's play with this idea a little and think about its trajectory. At [...]

TTC: Shifting Perspective

By | October 8th, 2018|Categories: Fertility yoga, Frustration, IVF stress relief, positive thinking for fertility, ttc|Tags: , , , , |

TTC: Shifting perspective...when we’re in the thick of it, it can feel like this is the end game. We wonder how we're going to cope, and what will my life be like if I can't have children? It's terrifying and exhausting. But here’s the thing. Change is coming. If there is only one certainty in life, this is [...]

TTC: Why Anger Isn’t Bad – Learning How To Work With It

By | September 24th, 2018|Categories: Anger, Fear, Fertility yoga, Forgiveness, Frustration, IVF stress relief, Kindness, positive thinking for fertility, ttc, yoga for fertility|Tags: , , , , , , |

TTC: I was chatting to my best friend today and she told me, 'I feel so angry all the time. I've been a complete bitch to everyone who cares about me, but I can't seem to snap out of it.' Anger is such a destructive emotion, but at the same time when it's in full flight [...]